I just had the great privilege to meet Nora Bateson, the daughter of Gregory Bateson, and Betty Alice Erickson, the daughter of Milton Erickson in Bruges. It was quite an incredible experience to say the least—these two very profoundly insightful and talented women of two of the most influential people of their generation. Betty Alice (named after Alice in Alice in Wonderland) is a masterful story teller in own right. She picked up her father’s trade 20 years ago after raising her family and now does training in hypnosis, storytelling, etc. She also just completed an edited book about her father called “An American Healer.” In addition to her great accounts of her father, she told a couple of metaphoric stories at the end of the day and there was not a dry eye in the room. Besides all that, she was quite delightful and full of fun.

Nora Bateson just completed a documentary film about her father which is not only a beautiful honoring of a father by a devoted daughter, an invaluable account of his impact on many fields, but also a magnificent statement of the interconnectedness of all living things—all embedded in a finely crafted cinematic experience. Nora is a truly gifted speaker and filmmaker, as well as an articulate spokesperson for systemic ideas. She was also was full of life and had a sparkling sense of humor. Check out the film at: http://www.anecologyofmind.com/Home_Page.php

This all came about via my association with the Korzybski Institute (a largely solution focused group with a decided existential twist called the Bruges model) which trains many therapists across Europe but mainly in the Netherlands, Switzerland, and Belgium. A fascinating man, Luc Isabaert, is the director. Luc is a wise and very knowledgeable person about almost everything from Bateson to Belgium Beer (which I capitalize because it is a national treasure)! I am now a trainer for Luc and Korzybski which led to my invitation to this “think tank” session following my kick off training course in Amsterdam which will continue in Bruges and other training sites in May. The theme of the think tank was my old friend, the therapeutic alliance, and the participants ranged from anthropologists, logicians, and organizational consultants to psychiatrists and family therapists. The discussion was fascinating although it was a bit outside of the pragmatic world in which I live and therefore a bit more academic at times than my taste. It brought back make many memories for me because my dissertation was a theoretical one (an option in my program) about systems theory and paradox. I had not thought about these ideas for some time and it was particularly fun to see how they still influence my thinking. And of course, the participants were brilliant and interesting so I spent much of time marveling at it all. And Bruges is absolutely unbelievable, a very well preserved 14th century crown jewel of Belgium. Check out the Institute at: http://www.korzybski.com/index.php?lang=en

Here is my presentation at the think tank about the alliance: